The majority of people are quite positive that I do not qualify as "normal". Definitions of me by others range from the flattering to the grotesque. The one I prefer anyway is the following: "You are a lesbian cleverly disguised as a man". I have always believed women are better than men from all points of view, so I find this comment particularly flattering. I, for one, would describe myself as "one at ease with his being ultimately out of place".